We decided maybe it was better that Dad stayed home instead of coming back to the hospital to watch Mom take her last breath. He agreed and said he wanted to be there when she comes home to him. And that she would want him to be at home.
One of our family's closest friends came by to say goodbye, Aunt Betty. Not long after she arrived and spoke to Mom, Mom took her last breath. It was almost like Mom was waiting for her to come?! She was the last of Mom's circle of friends to show up. How fitting cos she was the closest to a sister for Mom. Also there were two of my uncles (Dad's side) and their wives - Rob & Mona, Dave & Judy. I actually tried to tell them not to come as I know it's hard to see Mom fighting to draw breaths esp now when it's near the end. But they came anyway to be there for me and my brother as well as to say goodbye. Thank you!! I thought I could handle it but I was wrong and am so happy they didn't listen :) Also my mom's nephew and his wife - Nancy & Brandon. Next to Norm and I, they were Mom's other "kids". They stayed by Mom's side throughout and kept my Dad company as well.
We are busy making arrangements with funeral home and will post details once confirmed.
A big thanks to Dr. Marcoux and his wonderful team at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute. And also thanks to the awesome doctors and nurses at Brigham and Womens. Everyone at both hospitals made this process so much more bearable with their kindness, patience and compassion. I know my Mom was happy with the care she received. And she's super picky!
And last but not least, lots of love to all of my family and friends. I couldn't have done this without you all.
Signing off for now.