I ended up calling the sales guy that I worked with when we bought the plots. And he said the woman in the office was an idiot. He then reassured me that he would keep an eye out on Mom's grave.
The worst part of this is the fact that it's happening? I was first blaming Irish people but maybe I shouldn't assume the person who did it was Irish? I don't know...I really don't want to waste any more time or energy on this negative situation. I actually teared up thinking about why anyone would do something like that?
Anyways, Norm fixed it by replacing the flowers. I believe in karma so whoever did it.............