I hope you have an awesome birthday up there with Cousin Irene, Wingo and your parents. I know you are surrounded by the people you love most. So I feel comforted by that and am happy for you. Tho to be honest I wish you were here but I had many years celebrating your birthday so I cannot be selfish anymore.
I'm sure you know that Dad flew out to Taiwan and then will head over to HK and China. Please watch over him and don't let him drink too much and make sure he behaves appropriately for someone his age. It's hard to lecture him cos I feel bad and yet at the same time I can't believe some of the things he does! I now know how you felt when dealing with him. He will never grow up and I worry that he doesn't understand his limitations. And yes, he will suffer the effects of his bad decisions. But I will have to deal with taking care of him...I guess I'm not telling you anything you don't already know.
I want you to know that you were the best influence in my life even though I didn't know it until you were gone. Better late than never! I miss you, your presence and most of all your smile. Thanks for being the best role model and mother to me.
Love your daughter,
Bren